Valentine's Day tips for new couplesUPDATED 8:34 PM HST Feb 10, 2014Video Transcript
Whether you've been on only one date or have been seeing each other for a couple of weeks, the dreaded red-hearted holiday can make even the most confident dater feel insecure about how to approach the holiday. KITV-4's Ann Sterling has some tips on what you can do. IT'S ONE OF THE MOST ROMANTIC MOVIES OF THE 80'S ... THE BOOMBOX SCENE IN ... SAY ANYTHING. AND WITH THE MOST ROMANTIC DAY OF THE YEAR FAST APPROACHING ...GUYS ARE YOU STARTING TO FEEL THE PRESSURE?? 1.10-1.17 BRIAN HOLKER/ MARRIED 31 YEARS --- "everyday is valentines day with us. Is that sappy or what?" NOT AT ALL...THEN AGAIN BRIAN HOLKER'S BEEN MARRIED FOR 31 YEARS. WHAT IF YOU'RE IN A NEW RELATIONSHI P? WHAT IF YOU'VE ONLY BEEN ON ONE OR 2 DATES. STEVEN KATZ/Therapist 7.05.49 you approach it the same way you are talking to me. you talk to the person. You say you know I have this thing and it's Valentines day and it's is approaching. What do you usually do? STEVEN KATZ IS A THERAPIST IN HONOLULU AND SAYS DON'T SURPRISE THE NEW LADY IN YOUR LIFE. INSTEAD, LAY YOUR CARDS OUT ON THE TABLE ...SO YOU BOTH KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT. 6.17 maybe a lunch, not too serious. if you want to do the flower thing. Maybe one rose or something like that. 12.24 Stand up: ANN-- OR IF YOURE THAT UNCOMFORTA BLE WITH A ROMANTIC IDEA. MAYBE SKIP IT ALL TOGETHER. WHY NOT GO PLAY PAINTBALL, GO ROCK CLIMBING OR GO TO AN UNROMANTIC MOVIE.... AS KITV4 On KITV-4 Morning News tomorrow -- they're taking aim at couples that have been married for 15 or 20 years. And how THEY keep the romance alive. Thanks for being a part of Hawaii's ONLY hour-long 6pm newscast We're always online at KITV.com... And you can stay connected by LIKING us on Facebook and following us on TWITTER... We'll see you tonight at ten.